From one of Sanna’s lives:

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In most cases, people end up divorcing their partner and saying No to the entire relationship, completely unnecessarily.

Instead of making the relationship and everything that matters - not matter, they end up just walking away from the entire thing.

And that does not collapse anything. It does not disrupt anything, because the matter is still there.

And then they will carry that matter to the next relationship.

So they end up saying No to something that IS actually a turn on - when it’s clean.

It’s not the physical thing that’s not a turn on.

It’s the matter that’s in it that prevents it from being a turn on.

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