Dominance and Submission
A true Dom doesn’t want a yes from someone who can’t say NO.
They require actual submission from someone who can say NO at any time.
To a true Master, blind obedience is repulsive.
Blind submission on the other hand…
absolutely delicious.
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It’s not like I go around disrupting everyone and everything around me just because there’s bullshit afoot.
I don’t move until I’m moved.
When I can’t help but do it.
When it would be untrue not to whatever I’m called to do.
I never plan to fuck shit up.
I never ‘try’ to fuck shit up.
I just ‘apply pressure’ when it’s required because my being told me so.
And ‘applying pressure’ can look like anything.
It can look like speaking the truth.
It can look like not responding.
It can look like digging in.
It can look like not intervening.
The moment and the energy and the inner directive determines the move.
Not the person or the thing specifically.
Even when people in my life are going through the shit, I don’t pull a ‘Mandy’ on them just because I can.
Because unless it’s true, it does nothing for either of us.
The Mandy move only works when the energy between me and another is activated - the telltale sign that both of us are ready to play together and fuck shit up - without even knowing what’s about to go down.
And until I feel that pull, I don’t make a move.
And when I do, KA-BOOM.
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The Dom commands without a word.
The directive is known.
Felt.
Obeyed.
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“Thank you for giving me a Mandy slap. It had to blow up. It had to collapse.”
I received this feedback yesterday from a hottie who had been spinning in circles forfuckingever.
Attempting to control what felt out of control for fear of what might happen if she just let go.
She said she had been doing this her whole life.
Talk about exhausting.
And talk about how much power she possesses if that much effort is required to suppress it.
When we chatted I didn’t mince my words.
Even though she was experiencing the rawest edge and pain.
A spot that most seek to soften for another.
Because it makes them uncomfortable.
Because they want to ‘help’.
Because they can’t see what’s really going on.
Because they actually believe the pain is real.
But the true being doesn’t experience pain.
The person who is out of touch with their true being, does.
(There’s more to this - for another time)
So I went right in.
To the eye of her storm.
Because I knew she was at her tipping point.
The hottest place to be.
Energetically, her system was BEGGING me to destroy that which appeared to be destroying her.
So I did.
By speaking directly to HER.
Not her.
And she collapsed on the spot.
Of course.
Then SHE began to erect.
Naturally.
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eroticism
freedom
and power
can only be self-sourced
and once that’s your baseline
(your natural state)
then everything else
(including kink)
is an extension
and expression
of this
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He and I don’t talk about the energetics.
We live them.
He doesn’t read a word I write.
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My work is not for everyone.
It’s barely for anyone.
But for those who it was made for,
nothing else will do.
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The powerless surrender to illusion.
The powerful submit to truth.
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I don’t know where I’m being led.
And frankly, I don’t care.
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My work has nothing to do with trust.
There is no ‘building’ it, ‘maintaining’ it, or ‘breaking’ it.
It’s all (and only) about the energy.
When it’s pure, we play.
When it’s not, we don’t.
It’s not, and will never be, about trust.
That’s what people who deny their power need to believe is necessary for them to step fully into truth.
But you don’t need to trust another.
You need to trust yourself.
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She is a Dominatrix in all areas of her life.
With all the people in her life.
With one exception.
To the energy within,
she freely submits.
The world; she owns.
By IT; she’s owned.
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