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Sanna On The Wimpy Fucker (A Transcript)

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From one of Sanna’s lives:

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Viewer: “What to do when your partner is a wimpy fucker?”

Two ways to go about saying No.

One: You actually physically walk away.

Two: (which was my case because I had the knowing that he was the person that was a huge turn for me, he had the potential to be my unmatch and that I actually wanted to be with him; I just didn’t want to be around the energy that he was in) You stay in your own High Feminine in that relationship, no matter what.

You do not surrender to anything.

You do not hold space for him and his wimpy fucker or his swampy feminine.

You do not do anything that is not a turn on.

You play your own game within that relationship, which ends up breaking / collapsing the container, at which point one of two things will happen.

One: He’s going to collapse and physically walk away.

Two: Your High Feminine disrupting his swampy feminine will actually activate his High Masculine and he will rise up to be your unmatch.

But it has to not matter which one it is.

You have to get to the point where you would rather be without him than surrender to the energy, and it has to not matter if he walks away.

So you have to kill the attachment to wanting him to stay.

Otherwise, you will always limit your actions, your expressions, and yourself to match him so that he will not leave, and that creates a container because there’s a limit to how far you’re willing to go, what you’re willing to say, what you’re willing to do.

Viewer: “That’s what I’ve been trying to do and he’s been getting so angry.” 

Let him get angry.

Do not hold space or go into the emotion with him.

That’s his swampy feminine getting emotional and collapsing. 

You have to see what’s happening in the energetics behind what’s happening in the physical because that is how you will be able to stay unattached to what’s appearing to happen in the physical. 

And all that is happening when he’s getting angry is that his swampy feminine is collapsing because his swampy feminine cannot relate to you in that moment because there’s nothing in the High Feminine to relate to.

Which means that he actually has to stand on his own, and the swampy feminine cannot do that.

It’s not possible for her to stand on her own.

She needs a container.

And you’re refusing to provide that container for him and his swampy feminine.

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Touché, Bitch (An Essay)

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Talking with a friend in a relationship that’s been the biggest NO forfuckingever…

Her: “But I love his family.”

Me: “More than you love yourself?”

Her: “Touché, bitch.”

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P.S. If you’ve never referred to me as ‘bitch’ (not ‘a bitch’ - although that would still be a compliment), do you even love me?

And if I haven’t called you ‘bitch’ while hyped up in a private convo / message / work call, either celebrating you or calling you out, do I even love you?

Of course.

But it’s still fun to ponder.

Mandyland Math (An Essay)

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Right now new ‘math’ is swirling around the internet.

There’s boy math.

Girl math.

Even gay math.

So here’s some Mandyland Math:

1. The less you care, the more you love.

2. What’s in line with the being feels out of line to the human.

3. Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING (especially every so-called ‘bad’ thing), makes you more, regardless of what you’ve ‘lost’.

4. You gotta go where it hurts to feel better.

5. The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.

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The Passive Goodbye (An Essay)

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“I wish things could be different.”

Translation: “I wish I could stay the same and also have you put up with all that entails, but since you’re holding me accountable and I’d need to do the actual work required of me for us to continue, I guess this is the end. But if you change your mind and want to settle for even less in the future, you can always count on me.”

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Your Verbal Line In The Sand (An Essay)

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“You verbally express it because you can’t energetically hold it.”

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Andrea: “Is this always the case?”

No.

If they’re energetically backed, you can feel the power through the words. But it’s not the words themselves doing the speaking.

It’s the energy.

The words are chosen but are not necessary to deliver the message which is already felt and known with or without the words.

What I’m pointing to in this bite is the use of words (like setting boundaries, for example) with no energetic backing - the reason you’re relying on words to deliver the message in the first place; a message that won’t come through because your energy is saying something else entirely.

Words can’t override the truth of where you are (or aren’t) and make what’s not true, true.

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Using words in an attempt to achieve what you’ve yet to earn (and wouldn't need to name had you earned and achieved it already), demonstrates that split.

You wouldn’t need to draw a line in the sand with words if the line was energetically there to begin with.

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Be More Like Hanna (An Essay)

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Yesterday a guy asked me what I do for a living.

Because that’s what typical, boring and conditioned humans ask other typical, boring and conditioned humans.

#cosmicredflag

So I offered my typical response:

“I float through space.”

Because who fucking cares.

Because let’s play elsewhere.

We just met and I’m already bored.

And it made me think of my friend, Hanna.

(A dreamy guest of mine on Mandyland Radio)

Whenever we have a call or check in through message, she asks, “What’s alive in your world?”

And my being just swoons.

Because THAT’s the vibe.

#letsbemorelikehanna

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The Daddy Thingy Of Addiction (An Essay)

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From a recent text chat with my cyber bestie…

Kristen: “People believe they are the thingy.”

Me: “Yes.”

Kristen: “Which is the problem with identifying as an addict because it says I am my thingy.”

Me: “Yep.”

Kristen: “And people with the biggest thingys are often the ones who are most potent.”

Me: “Exactly. They wouldn’t need a thingy so big if they weren’t so powerful.”

Kristen: “But shame is a whole thing, too. Shame is the core thing. It’s the Daddy Thingy.”

Me: “Yep. And the being doesn’t carry shame at all. It’s just another thingy to fuel all the other thingies.”

Kristen: “And things need space held for them.”

Me: “Yep.”

Kristen: “Which eats up space / power.”

Me: “Yep.”

Kristen: “Hungry thingys.”

Me: “Yep lol”

Kristen: “Insatiable thingys.”

Me: “Feed all the thingies!”

Kristen: “lol”

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Escaping Through Addiction (An Essay)

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“I think of my addiction as escapism and I’m curious about your thoughts on that.”

Being energetically intact (operating from our innate power) is our natural state.

And it’s glorious.

So what’s to escape from? 

We only feel the need to ‘escape’ when we’re existing unnaturally. 

And addiction is the perfect way to ineffectively ‘manage’ the discomfort of that inner deviation.

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Catching Feelings (An Essay)

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Her: “But what if their moves affect me?”

Me: “Then you’re allowing yourself to be affected.”

Another’s moves aren’t the reason you feel the way you do.

That would imply that the external is more powerful than you are (it’s not),

and that you didn’t generate this exact feeling and circumstance yourself (you did).

The other’s moves are just what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.

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