People pleasers aren’t any less controlling or manipulative than those who ‘take advantage’ of them.
Both are positioning themselves, and using others, to get their artificial needs met.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
Asses
People pleasers aren’t any less controlling or manipulative than those who ‘take advantage’ of them.
Both are positioning themselves, and using others, to get their artificial needs met.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
Avoiding ‘toxic’ people isn’t the solution.
(or even possible)
Becoming clean yourself is.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
Why are you mad at them for your choice to betray yourself?
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
When you take away the artificial buffer(s), there's a high chance that someone's gonna split.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
The world doesn’t need saving.
Nor do you or anyone else.
#sorrynotsorryjesus
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
If someone is stuck on their bullshit, I swerve.
I want nothing to do with it.
They can figure that out on their own time.
Not mine.
You couldn’t pay me enough to deal with someone who is not ready to let go of their shit.
Because there’s nothing there for me.
And I could care less if they’re ever ready.
I am absolutely not invested in someone else’s freedom.
At all.
They have to want that for themselves enough to do what needs to be done.
Which means letting go of their crutches and excuses and actually standing on their own.
At that point, we play.
Until then, I’m gone.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
You weren’t deceived.
You knew.
And chose to believe something else.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
You only point at others when you’ve turned against yourself.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
Give a human what he wants and he will see it’s not what he wanted.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
The human makes excuses.
The being just says NO.
(Even without a word)
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
The next one won’t be better.
The same work will meet you there, too.
△
▽
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
How to successfully human:
1. Honour external commitments.
2. Ignore internal commands.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
“And with everything happening in the world right now…”
As if it’s new.
Or different.
Or exclusive to now.
Name one time in the history of ever when this wasn’t the case.
When things weren’t happening.
When insanity wasn’t the norm.
I’ll wait.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
The saner you are, the more insane you (and they) appear.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
The devil will never announce his arrival.
Your system always will.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
It’s absurd how little it actually takes to arouse and sway the m(asses).
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe
They’re not against you just because they’re for themselves.
△
collections · let’s play · shop · tip · subscribe