Mentoring
I don’t feel tethered to anyone.
Not even to my own child.
And if you can’t understand how this can be,
and how this is the highest expression and experience of true love and ultimate freedom,
we should talk.
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Recorded in 2022.
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The world doesn’t need saving.
Nor do you or anyone else.
#sorrynotsorryjesus
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If someone is stuck on their bullshit, I swerve.
I want nothing to do with it.
They can figure that out on their own time.
Not mine.
You couldn’t pay me enough to deal with someone who is not ready to let go of their shit.
Because there’s nothing there for me.
And I could care less if they’re ever ready.
I am absolutely not invested in someone else’s freedom.
At all.
They have to want that for themselves enough to do what needs to be done.
Which means letting go of their crutches and excuses and actually standing on their own.
At that point, we play.
Until then, I’m gone.
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I’m not going down there to get you.
You have to find your own way up.
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From one of Sanna’s lives:
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It’s not easy to operate from your High Feminine because there’s literally no one that you can follow.
There’s no one that you can look to for answers in your particular field.
There’s no one that you can go to for comfort or confirmation that what you know is actually true.
You are operating completely blindly, operating from the unknown and in the unknown, and you’re literally pulling things in from the nothing, which is exactly where your High Feminine thrives.
What you’re here to do, what you’re here to say, what you’re here to create, has not been created before.
It has never been accessed before in the depth and the clarity and the cleanness that you’re here to access it.
Which is why it takes most people lifetimes, if ever, before they actually access their thing.
Which is why there are so few people out there who have actually ever created anything completely new.
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It doesn’t matter why someone isn’t ready.
Or if they will ever be.
If they can’t walk through that door with you,
that’s all you need to know.
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I had a call with a hottie who I soon realized was nowhere close to being ready for a call with me.
She was committed to her stories.
She didn’t actually want to be free.
So I interrupted her mental masturbation by letting her know this isn’t the work I do and I ended the Zoom call.
She called me on Messenger a moment later.
And I had no problem picking up because ‘new moment, new everything’ in Mandyland.
I was happy to start again.
But she was still there; not here.
So I ended that call, too.
*sends a cheeky new invoice*
Because that is the work I do.
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How do you turn down a person that clearly needs help just because it’s not a turn on for you to work with them?
How do you justify the lack of the turn on?
How do you say No someone that needs help?
I don’t know if you see how twisted that idea is.
How morphed it actually is.
How backwards the thinking is.
Because when you say No to someone that’s not a turn on, you’re actually helping them.
Saying yes to someone that is not a huge turn on is you taking on someone that doesn’t need your help, doesn’t need you, doesn’t need your art.
It is not the thing that they require in that moment.
And in that decision to surrender, you end up creating a container for something that was never supposed to happen.
Something that is a manufactured, artificial thing that is not an actual experience for anyone.
That is, in fact, wasting your time and their time, all because you don’t trust your turn on and you don’t trust your No.
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You use and teach tools and processes because you don’t trust yourself enough to go rogue.
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From one of Sanna’s lives:
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Viewer: “What to do when your partner is a wimpy fucker?”
Two ways to go about saying No.
One: You actually physically walk away.
Two: (which was my case because I had the knowing that he was the person that was a huge turn for me, he had the potential to be my unmatch and that I actually wanted to be with him; I just didn’t want to be around the energy that he was in) You stay in your own High Feminine in that relationship, no matter what.
You do not surrender to anything.
You do not hold space for him and his wimpy fucker or his swampy feminine.
You do not do anything that is not a turn on.
You play your own game within that relationship, which ends up breaking / collapsing the container, at which point one of two things will happen.
One: He’s going to collapse and physically walk away.
Two: Your High Feminine disrupting his swampy feminine will actually activate his High Masculine and he will rise up to be your unmatch.
But it has to not matter which one it is.
You have to get to the point where you would rather be without him than surrender to the energy, and it has to not matter if he walks away.
So you have to kill the attachment to wanting him to stay.
Otherwise, you will always limit your actions, your expressions, and yourself to match him so that he will not leave, and that creates a container because there’s a limit to how far you’re willing to go, what you’re willing to say, what you’re willing to do.
Viewer: “That’s what I’ve been trying to do and he’s been getting so angry.”
Let him get angry.
Do not hold space or go into the emotion with him.
That’s his swampy feminine getting emotional and collapsing.
You have to see what’s happening in the energetics behind what’s happening in the physical because that is how you will be able to stay unattached to what’s appearing to happen in the physical.
And all that is happening when he’s getting angry is that his swampy feminine is collapsing because his swampy feminine cannot relate to you in that moment because there’s nothing in the High Feminine to relate to.
Which means that he actually has to stand on his own, and the swampy feminine cannot do that.
It’s not possible for her to stand on her own.
She needs a container.
And you’re refusing to provide that container for him and his swampy feminine.
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I blow shit up endlessly.
Because I love you and I love me.
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The deepest truths apply across the board.
They’re simple, obvious, light.
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Someone told me my energy is ‘too big’ and that’s why they ‘shrink’ (go energetically limp) when I’m around.
Guess they’ll have to figure that out.
#erectionsforeveryone
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At the end,
you come to what you knew at the start.
And actively chose to ignore.
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Talking with a friend in a relationship that’s been the biggest NO forfuckingever…
Her: “But I love his family.”
Me: “More than you love yourself?”
Her: “Touché, bitch.”
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P.S. If you’ve never referred to me as ‘bitch’ (not ‘a bitch’ - although that would still be a compliment), do you even love me?
And if I haven’t called you ‘bitch’ while hyped up in a private convo / message / work call, either celebrating you or calling you out, do I even love you?
Of course.
But it’s still fun to ponder.
