When you’ve actually had enough of it,
you won’t have to try.
It will just be done.
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Makin Moves
Nothing To See Here (Mandy Bite)
No Take Off (Mandy Bite)
Two For One (An Essay)
I had a call with a hottie who I soon realized was nowhere close to being ready for a call with me.
She was committed to her stories.
She didn’t actually want to be free.
So I interrupted her mental masturbation by letting her know this isn’t the work I do and I ended the Zoom call.
She called me on Messenger a moment later.
And I had no problem picking up because ‘new moment, new everything’ in Mandyland.
I was happy to start again.
But she was still there; not here.
So I ended that call, too.
*sends a cheeky new invoice*
Because that is the work I do.
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Stuck Together (An Essay)
if the only thing keeping you together is your unnatural attachment to one another
(and all attachment is unnatural)
made possible only through the sticky and accumulated shit you both have brought to the relationship table
things like your respective and shared pasts
your so-called traumas
your personal needs and desires
your ongoing focus on yourself and the other
then you’re not yet truly together
because of all that shit in the way
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Ring The Alarm (Mandy Bite)
I'll Never Be Done With Him (An Essay)
Amanda: “Are you DONE done with him?”
I don’t need to be done with him.
Or with anybody or anything else.
I just need to be exactly where I am.
Those people and things will be here as well - or they won’t be.
Who cares.
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Those Silly Excuses (Mandy Bite)
The human makes excuses.
The being just says NO.
(Even without a word)
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Using Every Bit (An Essay)
Doing ‘the work’ doesn’t automatically or even fundamentally change the externals of your life (and it can).
But it absolutely changes your experience of the externals, of yourself, and of the moment, as you continue to lift every veil that’s been clouding your vision for so long.
Doing ‘the work’ leaves you with a seamless inner experience that remains untainted by whatever comes up.
Because stuff will always come up.
In you and in life.
And eventually you can’t even tell one thing from another because all things are made equal in the face of that inner stillness.
And every bit is used as the portal that it is.
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Take Off (Mandy Bite)
I’m here to keep flying in the face of what IS.
To want nothing different from the moment I’m in.
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No Middle Ground (Mandy Bite)
Don’t meet people where they’re at.
Be where you are.
They’ll either meet you there or not.
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Here's A Tip (Mandy Bite)
Anarchy For The Human (Mandy Bite)
Don’t honour your word.
Honour yourself.
The truth in THIS moment.
Regardless of what you’ve said.
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Sanna On Not Helping Others (A Transcript)
From one of Sanna’s lives:
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How do you turn down a person that clearly needs help just because it’s not a turn on for you to work with them?
How do you justify the lack of the turn on?
How do you say No someone that needs help?
I don’t know if you see how twisted that idea is.
How morphed it actually is.
How backwards the thinking is.
Because when you say No to someone that’s not a turn on, you’re actually helping them.
Saying yes to someone that is not a huge turn on is you taking on someone that doesn’t need your help, doesn’t need you, doesn’t need your art.
It is not the thing that they require in that moment.
And in that decision to surrender, you end up creating a container for something that was never supposed to happen.
Something that is a manufactured, artificial thing that is not an actual experience for anyone.
That is, in fact, wasting your time and their time, all because you don’t trust your turn on and you don’t trust your No.
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Gotcha (Mandy Bite)
The next one won’t be better.
The same work will meet you there, too.
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Again (Mandy Bite)
Inside Job (Mandy Bite)
Cheating (An Essay)
Cheating isn’t a mistake.
It’s a choice.
It’s a decision to hide and to deceive.
And…
It’s a weak and powerless move.
Because it’s ‘easier’ to sneak around than to muster the strength to be fully transparent with the one you claim you love(d) and ‘risk’ whatever comes from that.
And of course you have your reasons (excuses) not to live in truth.
Everyone does.
To not demonstrate your love for yourself and another by being honest about what already is.
You’re scared.
You have something to ‘lose’.
You don’t want to hurt them.
Whatever the fuck.
Still weak.
Still powerless.
Still not taking full responsibility for yourself and your choices and doing what needs to be done.
Being with others isn’t an issue.
Hiding that you are, is.
And even that isn’t the real ‘issue’.
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The Next Isn't Better (An Essay)
I’d rather do the work within the current dynamic than to swap it out for another (supposedly ‘better’) ride.
The next one won’t be ’better’.
The same work will meet me there, too.
So I do it from exactly where I am and what I find myself in.
The ‘next’ I actually want and crave, arises directly and naturally from that.
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Resist The Temptation (Mandy Bite)
If you fill it in, you end up where you don’t belong.
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