The fire you actually crave comes from never leaving home.
From working on THIS; not that.
Because THIS is all there is and that will adjust accordingly.
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I Know You Want It (Mandy Bite)
You feed, consume and showcase the pain because you get off on it.
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Stop Feeding It (An Essay)
You starve it by not feeding it.
Inwardly, that’s what you do.
“The ignored guest quickly leaves.”
So give it no reason to stay.
You can entertain the chaos.
The insanity.
The mind.
Go into the depths of hell.
Then post about your dark night.
Tell others about that ‘necessary’ initiation.
That ‘generational trauma’ that ‘lives in your bones’.
Be commended on your strength for ‘facing the beast’.
(For enduring yourself at the hands of yourself and calling it by another name)
Sure, you can do that.
But you could also not.
You feed the pain because you get off on it.
When you’re done getting off,
it’s gone.
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How Low Can You Go? (Mandy Bite)
No one has the power to pull you into the lower, let alone keep you there.
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Higher / Lower / Home (An Essay)
in Energetics, Essays, Shit Stack, Makin Moves, Linked, Triggered
No one has the power to pull you into the lower, let alone keep you there.
Your choice to leave the higher is what keeps you where you don’t belong.
And also leads you right back home.
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Ultimate Reality (Mandy Bite)
Truth exists,
always was, is, and will be,
regardless of the noise.
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If You Really Love Me (An Essay)
Most would rather have another cater / adapt to their dysfunction(s) / delusion(s) than to do the work necessary to correct it themselves.
And most would rather do that for another to avoid their own discomfort in taking that same responsibility for themselves.
#letsstaysmalltogether
#fillinthegapsifyouloveme
#thatswhattheycalllove
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Fill In My Gaps, Baby (Mandy Bite)
Most would rather have another cater / adapt to their dysfunction(s) / delusion(s) than to do the work necessary to correct it themselves.
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Thoughtful Noise (An Essay)
in Energetics, Essays, Zero Point, Uncluttered, Silence, Linked
Thoughts don’t create reality.
Thoughts, like all things, are just matter.
And matter has zero impact / influence on truth aka the ultimate reality.
It never shifts.
Nor can it be created.
Truth exists,
always was, is, and will be,
regardless of the noise.
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What's The Problem? (Mandy Bite)
All couples have problems.
All people who look outside of themselves for something / anything have problems.
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A Dance So Fluid (Poem)
it was the most natural dance with another
through the other
who is me
a dance so fluid
i didn’t notice the moves
i only felt the dance
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Return To Sender (Mandy Bite)
Everything you want is already at your feet.
If it can’t pass through,
that’s on you.
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Lemon Fire (Mandy Bite)
Taken (Poem)
in Energetics, Linked, Poems, Fellows, SEX
no one’s ever had me
but he’s had more of me
than most
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Red Light (Mandy Bite)
When you deny yourself,
you deny god itself.
#samething
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Standstill (Mandy Bite)
Thrown Off My Game (An Essay)
in Energetics, Essays, Fellows, Lovers, Makin Moves, Triggered, Shit Stack, Death, Linked, Narc Shit
if it didn’t destroy me
if parts of me weren’t forced to die
repeatedly
and quite potently
through the is-ness of he and i
there’d be no pull for me to stay
- not with him -
but with all that arises
through the mutual destruction that our interactions bring
this alone is what interests me
because i’m interested in what disturbs me
and i’m interested in the art of becoming less disturbed
by what throws me off my game
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Smizin' (Mandy Bite)
Why would I be less me for anybody?
The more me, the better.
For everybody.
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Sharp; Not Soft (An Essay)
I do the opposite of what they say to do
With a man
As a woman
Whatever the fuck that means
I am sharp
Not soft (and I am - very)
I challenge everything
Until there’s nothing
I don’t let anything go
Until it returns back to zero
(an inside job - read more)
And as he’s said…
I’m relentless
Unyielding
Exacting
Demanding
Militant
Trenchant
Mercurial
And yet…
He’s still here
Right here
Closer than most will ever be (his words)
To me
To themselves
To heaven
To another
Precisely because I do the opposite of what they say to do
With a man
As a woman
Whatever the fuck that means
Why would I be less me for anybody
The more me, the better
For everybody
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