Human Dynamics
Ultimately,
I don’t trust anybody.
I don’t need to.
I trust my knowing.
I trust myself.
And therefore, every move by proxy.
Which is why…
I don’t require another to be ‘trustworthy’.
I know when truth is present and when it’s not.
Which has nothing to do with the person.
And everything to do with the now.
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If you can’t see the absolute perfection of a ‘bad’ experience,
even the ‘worst’ experience of your life,
then you haven’t gone deep enough.
You haven’t extracted your gold
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The experience shows you where you’re deficient.
Not as a person.
But in power.
In self-ownership.
Because that experience ‘had the power’ to move you.
Proof you still have work to do.
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“I wish things could be different.”
Translation: “I wish I could stay the same and also have you put up with all that entails, but since you’re holding me accountable and I’d need to do the actual work required of me for us to continue, I guess this is the end. But if you change your mind and want to settle for even less in the future, you can always count on me.”
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Being detached doesn’t equal being unfeeling.
In fact, the less that’s in the way (the less matter aka attachment there is), the more deeply you feel precisely because the moment / experience / person / relationship isn’t being filtered through a dense / matter-filled lens, thereby providing the richest, deepest and most purified dance through each moment of life.
When you can see things and others for what they truly are (pure energy), without the overlay of human distortion / judgement / attachment / need,
and you know viscerally (not just intellectually) that when you truly don’t care about or buy into the illusions that almost everyone holds tight to (which can make you appear cold and heartless to those still mired in non-existent shit),
you’re primed for potency and possess the capacity to experience and feel it ALL.
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If most coaches kept it real:
“I’ll take you to a place I haven’t even dared to go myself, and I’ll use a bunch of words and embellishments and contrived positioning to convince you that I’ve got whatchu need, and you’ll totally buy it because you can’t yet discern between what I’m saying and how I’m actually living / being, which is precisely why you’re captivated by my bullshit in the first place. Thank you for your payment.”
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You’re not special.
Your story’s not special.
You’re a living god
like everyone else.
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Those who are living in integrity with themselves are confusing and / or captivating (at times, even terrifying) to those who are not.
But it’s not because they know something that others don’t.
They’re just doing what most are not yet willing to do.
And until you’re in integrity with yourself, it’s not possible for you to touch what you misperceive those others have access to but you don’t.
So do the fucking work.
The work of actually listening to, and honouring, yourself.
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Yesterday a guy asked me what I do for a living.
Because that’s what typical, boring, conditioned humans ask other typical, boring, conditioned humans.
#cosmicredflag
So I offered my typical response:
“I float through space.”
Because who fucking cares.
Because let’s play elsewhere.
We just met and I’m already bored.
And it made me think of my friend, Hanna.
(A dreamy guest of mine on Mandyland Radio)
Whenever we have a call or check in through message, she asks, “What’s alive in your world?”
And my being just swoons.
Because THAT’s the vibe.
#letsbemorelikehanna
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“We haven’t reached our final form.”
And I agreed with him.
But we’ve reached a million ephemeral places.
And I’ve never felt more loved.
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We’re all fucked up.
Who cares?
The human condition(ing) makes it so.
And…
We’re all perfectly intact despite the fuckedupness.
It’s both.
Human + being.
And I don’t know one human who actually has all their shit together (whatever that means).
Not one.
But I know that every being exists perfectly and beautifully beyond the human shit.
And that every human touches and experiences even more of their brilliant being, both through and because of it.
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The other isn’t the reason you get triggered.
Your experience of the other is just showing you where you’re at.
And it’s perfectly highlighting what you’ve yet to contend with.
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You can’t have an expectation / demand / condition for how or when another person should behave for or in response to you…
and call that love.
You can’t point to what you’ve done for them (gross) in comparison to what you think they’ve yet to reciprocate (eww) as a way to justify why they should now perform / abandon / contort themselves for you like you clearly did for them (why else would you be keeping score)…
and call that love.
That’s manipulation.
Control.
Twisted, sticky, icky shit.
If it’s not given freely,
truthfully,
lovingly,
unconditionally…
why would you even want it?
You’d rather a performance than the real deal?
You’d rather have it the way your ego scripted it than the way it actually is?
You’d rather another do for you what you’re not willing to do for yourself?
Absurd.
People can move and exist as they wish.
You’re free to do the same.
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I’ll leave myself to meet you there.
You’ll do the same for me.
vs
I’ll stay right here.
You’ll stay right there.
We’ll dance in the in-between.
Or not.
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Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in…
Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”
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You only try to fill in the (perceived) gaps for another when you forget that they are sovereign, just like you.
And you can only forget another’s sovereignty when you have forgotten your own (cue a false sense of superiority) which is the only reason you’d ever feel the need to over-reach in the first place.
Your discomfort with where another is choosing to be at (yes, choosing — there are no victims and no one needs saving) generates your over-extension in an attempt to relieve yourself of said discomfort which actually has nothing to do with what the other is or isn’t doing / seeing / getting in that moment.
This is what feeds your desire to change / correct what’s being presented to whatever you deem ‘better’ / more ‘evolved’ than what they’re currently choosing for themselves,
which inevitably breeds resistance and stagnation; not clarity and movement, because the energy of your so-called help is tainted aka sourced from a false premise to begin with.
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