The glow up is infinite when you keep current with yourself.
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Human Dynamics
Beyond Solitary (Mandy Bite)
(Un)Dressed (Mandy Bite)
Full Throttle (Mandy Bite)
The Fire You Crave (An Essay)
The fire you actually crave comes from never leaving home.
From working on THIS; not that.
Because THIS is all there is and that will adjust accordingly.
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I Know You Want It (Mandy Bite)
You feed, consume and showcase the pain because you get off on it.
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No More Delulu (Mandy Bite)
Ring Of Truth (Mandy Bite)
Hall Of Mirrors (Mandy Bite)
It is only through your own delusion of powerlessness that you presume others are also without power.
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How Low Can You Go? (Mandy Bite)
No one has the power to pull you into the lower, let alone keep you there.
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If You Really Love Me (An Essay)
Most would rather have another cater / adapt to their dysfunction(s) / delusion(s) than to do the work necessary to correct it themselves.
And most would rather do that for another to avoid their own discomfort in taking that same responsibility for themselves.
#letsstaysmalltogether
#fillinthegapsifyouloveme
#thatswhattheycalllove
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Fill In My Gaps, Baby (Mandy Bite)
Most would rather have another cater / adapt to their dysfunction(s) / delusion(s) than to do the work necessary to correct it themselves.
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Love Lets Them Be (Mandy Bite)
It is not real love unless and until you have zero need / expectation / desire for the other to be different in any way.
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Romance Above The Fray (Mandy Bite)
Relationships aren’t hard work.
Operating in illusion via the human lens is.
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Walshee (Mandy Bite)
The Diagnosis (An Essay)
The ‘thing’ about a diagnosis / label…
is that it’s a thing.
Which only exists as a concept / ‘reality’ on the level of form.
But beneath and beyond that is the actual truth.
Free of all concepts / ideas / illusions of constraint.
And free of the need to attach meaning to things.
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What In The World (An Essay)
The fact that telling the truth is considered brave or rare or rude or risky or scary or vulnerable or shocking or threatening or commendable or anything significant at all…
shows just how fucked up society is / people are.
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The Call Out (An Essay)
When I wasn’t interested in working with a hottie and she thought she was calling me out…
Her: “Even you can’t cut through this.”
(all her shit)
Me: “You’re right.”
Only she can.
But she wanted her shit more than she wanted to be free.
What good is her working with me?
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Can You Do Me A Solid? (An Essay)
“Hey, I ignored myself. Can you do me a solid and correct it on your end?”
What you’re actually saying to someone when you ask or expect them to change.
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Rise Up (An Essay)
in Energetics, Makin Moves, Triggered, Pain, Asses, Human Dynamics, Essays, Addiction
When you look to another to give you something you’re refusing to give yourself,
what they offer will never hit the spot.
It’s yours to cultivate.
Not theirs to give.
And in your frustration of not getting what you think you want and need from someone else,
you point to them for not rising up adequately.
But it was you who did not rise up.
Hence your search for someone who would.
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