The NO
You Can't Go Wrong (Mandy Bite)
What’s not IT always leads to IT.
So ALL of it is IT.
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Neglected (Mandy Bite)
Your system inevitably screams NO when you've ignored its multiple whispers.
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Long Overdue (Mandy Bite)
You demonize another to justify your perpetually ignored NO.
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Never The Same (Mandy Bite)
“Things were never the same after that.”
After you stayed when you should have left.
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NO to the YES (An Essay)
I’m exacting.
Because no level of compromise is required.
You can only say YES to what can be seen.
And I only want what has yet to be dreamed.
Which can only come from saying NO.
Especially to a YES.
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His Moves Are Not My Business (An Essay)
Months ago while telling a friend about a moment with the fella that I was a HELL NAW to, she asked if I help a guy to shift the things that I’m not into, or if I just end things because of it.
My response:
I only do what the moment requires of me.
Whatever that may be.
Me making my true move does exactly what needs to be done.
Across the board.
With everyone.
I dropped deal breakers / boundaries / standards long ago.
They aren’t necessary.
And no, I don’t ‘help’ the fella shift his shit because that, too, is unnecessary.
He’s grown.
And his moves are not my business.
He can be however he wants to be.
I’ll make my moves accordingly.
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Ballsy Bitch (Mandy Bite)
You need to be willing to say NO without having something to say YES to.
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No Way, José (Mandy Bite)
If it’s a NO for your being,
it’s a NO for theirs, too.
No exceptions.
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Yes Equals Less (Mandy Bite)
You get what you say YES to.
So don’t say YES to a thing.
Keep saying NO to all that’s not IT.
A living dream is all that remains.
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Higher, Baby (Mandy Bite)
Your NO is telling you that a higher quality experience is available through and beyond said NO.
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Oh, Shit (Mandy Bite)
If you’re resentful and angry,
you said YES to a NO.
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The Refusal To Stay Where It's False (An Essay)
my NO with him only adds to the turn on
without that being my incentive to honour it
all i know in a moment is not this
what he does with that is not my business
not my ‘problem’
not a consideration at all
and yet
what he’s done with each zig and zag of me
has been heavenly
so dreamy
and
as i continue to ride each edge
making the entrance point more narrow
more pristine for the god in me
what awaits me on the other side of that perpetual sharpening
is the more that can’t be tasted
the more that can’t be felt
were i to choose to just deny myself
and abandon what is true
and it’s that whittling down to nothing
that refusal to stay where it’s false
that devotion to truth in each moment
(no matter what happens as a result)
that creates a vortex for the ALL
the ALL that can’t be named
the ALL beyond my wildest dreams
the ALL that’s sourced from NO
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Get Out, Loser (Mandy Bite)
No one loses from your NO.
What they get is what’s most true.
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It Doesn't Matter Why (Mandy Bite)
it doesn’t matter why
a NO is a NO
or who or what it involves
the NO is to the energy
and energy never lies
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When Things Get Ugly (An Essay)
in Energetics, The NO, Essays
when you stay beyond your NO
the experience gets muddy
messy
tainted
ugly
showing you exactly what that NO was ‘saving’ you from in the first place
your being KNEW
but that knowing went ignored
until that NO you ignored got so damn loud
that nothing could make you stay
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You're Asking The Wrong Question (An Essay)
in Energetics, Money, The NO, Most Popular, Health, Makin Moves, Mentoring, Addiction, Human Dynamics, Zero Point, Pain, Essays, Convos
It's not: "How do I get the clients / make the money / overcome the addiction / heal the pain / resolve this health and / or relationship 'issue'?"
It's: "When will I stop saying YES to a NO? When will I stop supressing what's true? When will I make being the living truth my full-time job regardless of who or what is in front of me?"
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The NO vs The Edge (An Essay)
in Energetics, The NO, Most Popular, Makin Moves, Essays, Linked
When there is a big, fat NO in my system that I didn’t catch right away, I feel sick in my throat.
It feels like dread.
It feels heavy and icky in my gut.
Things feel serious, tight, restricted.
And that dense feeling eclipses everything else until I figure out where the NO must be applied and how.
It doesn’t matter that I missed / ignored it the first time or how long I kept missing / ignoring my NO.
It doesn’t even matter who or what or why.
There’s a NO in my brilliant system and to keep saying YES to it would be a lie.
That sick feeling is proof that I missed / ignored it and kept missing / ignoring it or else it couldn’t have gotten to the point of full blown dread.
Who cares.
New moment.
New move.
Let’s rock.
When there is an edge in my system, I also feel sick.
Nauseous.
Hella nervous.
Like I’m at the top of a rollercoaster about to go down.
But there is no heaviness.
No dread.
No lump in my throat at all.
Nothing feels icky.
It feels exhilarating.
Fascinating.
Fun and light and limitless.
Yummy and also terrifying.
It’s not knowing what the fuck is gonna happen but being so willing to take this wild ride just because it’s true, and to let my fear stop me would be a lie.
And so…
A true NO is telling me to stop.
A true edge is telling me to go.
That’s how I tell the difference.
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