Humans are gonna human.
An inevitable and terrible fate.
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Human Dynamics
Twisted Sticky Shit (An Essay)
You can’t have an expectation / demand / condition for how or when another person should behave for or in response to you…
and call that love.
You can’t point to what you’ve done for them (gross) in comparison to what you think they’ve yet to reciprocate (eww) as a way to justify why they should now perform / abandon / contort themselves for you like you clearly did for them (why else would you be keeping score)…
and call that love.
That’s manipulation.
Control.
Twisted, sticky, icky shit.
If it’s not given freely,
truthfully,
lovingly,
unconditionally…
why would you even want it?
You’d rather a performance than the real deal?
You’d rather have it the way your ego scripted it than the way it actually is?
You’d rather another do for you what you’re not willing to do for yourself?
Absurd.
People can move and exist as they wish.
You’re free to do the same.
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8 Ball (Mandy Bite)
Self Abandonment 101 (One Minute Clip)
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Counterfeit vs Real Love (An Essay)
I’ll leave myself to meet you there.
You’ll do the same for me.
vs
I’ll stay right here.
You’ll stay right there.
We’ll dance in the inbetween.
Or not.
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Beneath Your Egoic Conditions (An Essay)
when you
want it
need it
expect it
demand it
even just ask for it
when you feel entitled to it
deserving of it
as if it was owed to you
when you’re keeping score
playing tit for tat
requiring life to meet your egoic conditions
you’ve forgotten who and what you truly are:
an immense power that generates
each perfectly curated piece
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Human vs Being (An Essay)
Human: runs from the present / dwells on the non-existent past / fears the illusory future / perpetually resists what IS (and suffers because of it) / consistently holds back truth / avoids making the true move / believes things, others, and life need(s) to be a certain way in order to feel okay / creates and then lives within endless, baseless, utterly insane stories / denies its sovereignty / blames the world and others and pretends to be a victim / takes zero responsibility for the creation and quality of its own experience / looks out instead of in…
Being: “And you wonder why you feel like shit?”
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Every 'Issue' Explained (Mandy Bite)
Regardless of the ‘issue’, it’s about your relationship to power.
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Beyond Penetration (One Minute Clip)
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The Real Teacher (Mandy Bite)
Your existence teaches more than any words or teachings will.
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Filling In Another's Perceived Gaps (An Essay)
You only try to fill in the (perceived) gaps for another when you forget that they are sovereign, just like you.
And you can only forget another’s sovereignty when you have forgotten your own (cue a false sense of superiority) which is the only reason you’d ever feel the need to over-reach in the first place.
Your discomfort with where another is choosing to be at (yes, choosing - there are no victims and no one needs saving) generates your over-extension in an attempt to relieve yourself of said discomfort which actually has nothing to do with what the other is or isn’t doing / seeing / getting in that moment.
This is what feeds your desire to change / correct what’s being presented to whatever you deem better / more ‘evolved’ than what they’re currently choosing for themselves,
which inevitably breeds resistance and stagnation; not clarity and movement, because the energy of your so-called help is tainted aka sourced from a false premise to begin with.
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Far From Home (Mandy Bite)
We only feel the need to ‘escape’ when we’re existing unnaturally.
Addiction is the perfect way to ineffectively ‘manage’ the discomfort of that inner deviation.
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No Sex? No Problem (One Minute Clip)
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The Language That Speaks (An Essay)
Numbers aren’t the indicator.
Followers aren’t the indicator.
Engagement isn’t the indicator.
Energy is the language that speaks.
There are plenty of people saying plenty of things while their energy outs them every time.
And there are plenty of people making and paying plenty of dollars for those words (and other energetically limp creations) because they cannot yet sense the truth (energy).
Your energy is felt and known whether you speak or remain silent.
It is felt and known regardless of what you say or what you avoid saying.
Energy can’t be hidden.
And words can’t hide what IS.
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Missed Connection (Poem)
Your Brilliant System (One Minute Clip)
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Catching Feelings (An Essay)
Her: “But what if their moves affect me?”
Me: “Then you’re allowing yourself to be affected.”
Another’s moves aren’t the reason you feel the way you do.
That would imply that the external is more powerful than you are (it’s not),
and that you didn’t generate this exact feeling and circumstance yourself (you did).
The other’s moves are just what you point to and use, to justify your inability to harness your power.
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Long Overdue (Mandy Bite)
You demonize another to justify your perpetually ignored NO.
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Come For Me (Mandy Bite)
Until they say, “Who IS this bitch?”, my mission is not complete.
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Never The Same (Mandy Bite)
“Things were never the same after that.”
After you stayed when you should have left.
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