Dominance and Submission
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Obliteration Dance (An Essay)
I chose him precisely because of the density.
The grit.
For the perceived dysfunction that would highlight my own so I could erect what had long been limp.
I used him to purify myself.
To be stripped even further.
To stay until nothing was left.
From the outside, it looked insane.
And to my human, it felt like hell.
But obliteration was what I was after.
Why else would I have danced right there.
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Bend Over (Poem/Bite)
All I want is to destroy you.
Strip you bare and leave you for dead.
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Untethered (Poem/Bite)
I’ll stay when you do.
I’ll leave when you do, too.
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Strip Yourself (Mandy Bite)
Anything you rely on will be stripped from you.
You may as well strip yourself.
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Surrender vs Submission (An Essay)
In his brilliant work (The Untethered Soul, Living Untethered, The Michael Singer Podcast), Michael Singer uses the word ‘surrender’ (a lot) for what is actually full submission (aka ‘going blind’, as he noted so accurately).
But words are just words.
It’s the energy that speaks.
And his energy speaks volumes.
Typically when others speak and write of surrender, I cringe a little because you can feel the powerlessness in it.
They’re expressing from a passive / hopeful state.
It’s a giving up.
A handing over.
A feeling of defeat.
At times it’s even manipulative.
It’s: ‘I’ll do this so I can get that.”
It’s pretending not to care while caring very much.
It’s pretending to let go while waiting for it to come.
The energy of surrender is powerless.
The energy of submission however…
is PURE. FUCKING. POWER.
It’s actively remaining still.
It’s fully engaged.
It’s a deeply felt KNOWing.
Even when it appears like nothing is ‘happening’.
Existing wide awake and never moving IS the happening.
Submission is being erect / intact / discerning.
Which is the opposite of surrender.
It’s actually never surrendering.
It’s never deviating from one’s Self.
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True Submission (Mandy Bite)
Sourced From My Very Core (An Essay)
His submission to me,
through his submission to himself,
goes as deep as my own submission.
It cannot be another way.
He’s sourced from my very core.
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Diving In Unobstructed (An Essay)
The thing about being energetically erect and intact (one’s natural state), and not playing (making moves) unless and until it’s still, is that it perfectly fucks with whatever matter I’m currently holding on to.
The exact shit that’s here to be burned by the fire of ME.
It also perfectly fucks with the shit of whoever I’m playing with.
If there are any strings of attachment (hoping / waiting / needing / trying / expecting / victimizing / or whatever other bullshit that needs to go), I don’t touch it.
Because it’s an energetic turn off.
But if I feel turned on despite and because of the matter, it means that the shit is ready to get fucked up and I’m the bitch to do it.
Ultimately though, I play where it’s clear.
Where I sense no limits, no restrictions, no actual end in sight.
Just a wide open space to dive into unobstructed.
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Holding His Own (An Essay)
if i ever felt him leave himself
move for me instead of naturally
it would kill the vibe on contact
and the turn on would be gone
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Fuck The How (Mandy Bite)
It’s not “How do I?” (lose the weight / make the money / get the partner / whatever the fuck).
It’s listen and obey.
That’s it.
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He Moves With Me Seamlessly (An Essay)
He reminds me of a Leonard Cohen quote.
“You go your way. I’ll go your way, too.”
He moves with me seamlessly.
Effortlessly.
With nothing in between.
A dance so quiet, so tender, so natural, so close.
So light.
So pure.
So empty.
So free.
Little is spoken.
Yet everything is said.
“Mine.”
“Yours.”
Here we are.
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The Empty Vessel (An Essay)
It’s the empty vessel I’m after.
Limitless.
Bottomless.
Free of all constraints.
Willing to destroy himself,
so he can meet me here.
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Dripping Like Honey (An Essay)
he joked that i’m grooming him to be my submissive
which i loved
because although i’m not doing anything but being me
free of an agenda
and no requirements of another
(just a fine attunement to what turns me on and an unwillingness to play elsewhere)
the natural consequence of that for someone who is open to
and turned on by
my natural way of being
is submission (my heaven)
which feels as delicious to my system as it does to theirs
and…
from the very first scene
i was dripping like honey
from the energy of us
it was potent and true
it was pure and uncontrived
the most erotic dance in the world
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The Limp Game of BDSM (An Essay)
True Dominance and Submission is about the energetic tension that can only come from a deeply powerful state.
And since most can’t generate, hold, or withstand such a thing,
they use force, rules, rituals and tools
to (over) compensate.
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Blind Beauty (An Essay)
A true Dom doesn’t want a yes from someone who can’t say NO.
They require actual submission from someone who can say NO at any time.
To a true Master, blind obedience is repulsive.
Blind submission on the other hand…
absolutely delicious.
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When Bullshit is Afoot (An Essay)
It’s not like I go around disrupting everyone and everything around me just because there’s bullshit afoot.
I don’t move until I’m moved.
When I can’t help but do it.
When it would be untrue not to whatever I’m called to do.
I never plan to fuck shit up.
I never ‘try’ to fuck shit up.
I just ‘apply pressure’ when it’s required because my being told me so.
And ‘applying pressure’ can look like anything.
It can look like speaking the truth.
It can look like not responding.
It can look like digging in.
It can look like not intervening.
The moment and the energy and the inner directive determines the move.
Not the person or the thing specifically.
Even when people in my life are going through the shit, I don’t pull a ‘Mandy’ on them just because I can.
Because unless it’s true, it does nothing for either of us.
The Mandy move only works when the energy between me and another is activated - the telltale sign that both of us are ready to play together and fuck shit up - without even knowing what’s about to go down.
And until I feel that pull, I don’t make a move.
And when I do, KA-BOOM.
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